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About Dr. Winder

Dr. Winder has 20+ years of experience as a Clinical Psychologist treating individuals, couples, and families. He has worked in psychiatric hospitals, school-based and outpatient clinics, and private practice. His area of focus is Solution-focused therapy, emphasizing helping clients identify and work towards specific goals that will improve their mood, relationships, and quality of life. All therapy services are available either in person or via HIPAA-compliant Zoom. Dr. Winder is a licensed Psychologist (NY, NJ) and a Certified Divorce & Family Mediator.

Now in-network with Aetna and Optum (United Healthcare, Oscar, Oxford)

Dr. Winder's Services

Individual Therapy

Improve your life by gaining insight into areas you want to change, making a concrete plan to work on these goals, and implementing this plan in an organized, effective way.

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Couples Counseling

Relationship difficulties can affect every aspect of your life. Dr. Winder uses his unique method of collaborative goal-building and communication execises to help you repair and improve your connection.

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Family Mediation

Mediation is the way to make the best of a difficult situation. You don’t need to fight in court. Learn how Dr. Winder can help you avoid unnecessary conflict through collaborative solutions to family conflict or divorce.

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Individual Therapy

You’ll get started right away on the process of improving your life by identifying areas of needed improvement, making a concrete plan to work on these areas, and implementing this plan in an organized, effective way. Dr. Winder is experienced in treating a wide variety of issues with the goal of having a positive and lasting impact on your quality of life.

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Couples Counseling

Relationship difficulties can affect every aspect of your life. Dr. Winder uses his unique method of collaborative goal-building and implementation to can help you and your partner identify areas of potential improvement, and allow you to elevate the quality of your relationship in whatever ways you find most meaningful.

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Divorce Mediation

Mediation is the way to make the best of a difficult situation. You don’t need to fight in court. Learn how Dr. Winder can help. Save tremendous amounts of money, avoid stressful conflict, high anxiety and decreased quality of life, and customize your agreement in a way that works best for you, your partner, and your kids.

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Psychotherapy

Improve your life by identifying areas of needed improvement, making a concrete plan to work on these areas, and implementing this plan in an organized, effective way. Dr. Winder is experienced in treating a wide variety of psychological issues with the goal of having a positive and lasting impact on your life.

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Couples Counseling

Relationship difficulties can affect every aspect of your life. Dr. Winder uses his unique method of collaborative goal-building and implementation to can help you and your partner identify areas of potential improvement, and allow you to elevate the quality of your relationship in whatever ways you find most meaningful.

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Divorce Mediation

Mediation is the way to make the best of a difficult situation. You don’t need to fight in court. Learn how Dr. Winder can help. Save tremendous amounts of money, avoid stressful conflict, high anxiety and decreased quality of life, and customize your agreement in a way that works best for you, your partner, and your kids.

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Google Reviews

Thomas Ryan
Thomas Ryan
2022-03-11
I had very good experience with Dr. Alan. He is very professional and works really well with my relationship and work issues. He listened to me very carefully and his therapies helped me a lot to recover from my traumas and eventually I am seeing good results. Thank You Dr. Alan once again.☺️
Talha Hafeez
Talha Hafeez
2022-01-26
I highly recommend Dr Winder. He’s a skilled individual therapist and works well with relationship issues as well. I have a significant mental health history and have been seeing good results
Alina Riaz
Alina Riaz
2021-12-30
I had an excellent experience with Dr. Winder. I found him effective & compassionate and feel very positive after my session with him. Thank You
Linda Fowler
Linda Fowler
2020-02-28
Been suffering for a while in dealing with my emotional inconsistencies and Dr. Alan Winder is a very big help for me. His expertise is making rapid changes for my issues, his techniques are always very helpful. He’s been really patient yet very professional. I am glad I decided to get some help from him.
Karl Britton
Karl Britton
2020-02-26
Dr. Winder saved me from a devastating divorce process. He helped a lot to lessen the stress and of course the cost. His expertise really helped us to resolve our issues, he is humble, fair and made sure that we’re seeing both sides. I made the right choice to get help from him. Highly recommended!
Wil Harris
Wil Harris
2020-02-23
Highly Recommended! Dr Winder just made my stressful life into a manageable situation. Divorce is a difficult process and I never thought it could be less painful until I decided to get help from Dr Winder. Very helpful and practical. Situation managed and all better now, thanks to Dr. Winder.
Liz Hill
Liz Hill
2020-02-20
I highly recommend Dr. Winder. Professional yet very humble. Therapy with him is very helpful. I am grateful to have him help me with my issues.
Gerry Gerrykowsky
Gerry Gerrykowsky
2020-02-19
I just wanted to recommend Doctor Winder to anyone who might be considering seeing him. The approach he uses is very effective and he doesn’t waste your time or talk about useless things. He helps you find goals that are useful and that you can do and he gives good exercises that are based on the goals you need. Was really helpful to us and can help you too!
Cowboy hat Catahoulas
Cowboy hat Catahoulas
2019-08-02
Dr. Winder is a really great psychologist. Also very knowledgeable about issues relating to divorce. Very good at finding ways to help people save money through mediation and avoid having to hire lawyers or fight for no reason. Definitely give him approach a try before doing anything that’s just going to cause problems later.
Salit Auto Sales
Salit Auto Sales
2017-10-24
Very professional when dealing with him. My advice is to be as honest as you can with him, if you are, it will help. I would highly recommend him.